Talk about early dating, compatibility, values, red flags, green flags and expectations.
Create Post in this CommunityI have been speaking to someone for a few weeks and the conversations are warm. But our family expectations seem very different. Their family is deeply involved in decisions, while I am used to more independence.\n\nAt w…
I am dating with the intention of a serious relationship. I do not want to scare someone by asking marriage-related questions too early, but I also do not want to spend months avoiding important topics.\n\nWhat are respe…
There is strong chemistry with someone I am dating, but I am not sure about long-term compatibility. We have different habits around money, time, family involvement, and emotional expression.\n\nHow do you separate attra…
When we talk, the person is thoughtful and emotionally mature. But they disappear for days and then return with a warm message. I do not want to become needy, but inconsistency affects me.\n\nShould I ask directly or obs…
The person I am seeing likes daily calls and constant updates. I like connection too, but I also need quiet time after work. They feel distance means lack of interest. I feel closeness should not require constant availab…
The person I am dating says they are modern and supportive, but in examples they expect the woman to manage most home responsibilities after marriage. When I ask about it, they say these things can be managed later.\n\nI…
I tend to either idealise someone or become suspicious too fast. In Indian dating, families, career, and timelines can add pressure, so I am trying to assess more calmly.\n\nWhat green flags and red flags should I observ…
The person I am seeing is kind, but there is a visible difference in education and income. I do not mind it in theory, but sometimes there is insecurity from their side and guilt from mine.\n\nHow do couples handle statu…