i hate her, she should leave me
Trustshe says she loves me but does not put in the equal effort or thats what I think
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We are newly married and routine has replaced romance
MarriageIt has been less than a year since marriage, but work, commute, family duties, and household routines have taken over. We are not unhappy, but we feel more like roommates than partners some days.\n\nHow do newly married …
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Household work still feels like my responsibility after marriage
MarriageBoth of us work full-time, but the mental list of groceries, meals, laundry, maid coordination, and family hosting mostly stays with me. My spouse helps when asked, but I do not want to become the manager of the house.\n…
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We disagree on sending money to parents
MarriageMy spouse and I both support our families in different ways. The tension is not about helping parents, but about how much, how often, and whether we should discuss it before sending money.\n\nWhat is a respectful way to …
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Intimacy has reduced after work stress and commute
MarriageBoth of us are exhausted after long workdays and traffic. Physical and emotional intimacy has reduced. There is no major fight, but there is also little warmth. When I bring it up, my spouse says everyone is tired.\n\nHo…
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We are planning a baby but not aligned on readiness
MarriageOur families keep asking about children. My spouse feels we should not delay too much. I feel emotionally and financially unprepared. This has become a sensitive topic because family pressure is involved.\n\nHow do we ma…
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My spouse avoids financial planning discussions
MarriageI want to discuss insurance, savings, loans, and long-term goals. My spouse feels such conversations create anxiety and avoids them. I end up either pushing or dropping the topic.\n\nHow do couples start financial planni…
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How to make joint family living emotionally safer
FamilyWe live with family and most people are well-intentioned, but small comments and expectations add up. My spouse says I should adjust, but I need them to understand the emotional load of being observed all the time.\n\nWh…
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We are stable but no longer emotionally close
MarriageOur marriage looks fine from outside. No big fights, no drama, responsibilities handled. But emotionally, we rarely share fears, dreams, or small joys anymore. It feels like the relationship is functional but not intimat…