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Marriage & Before Marriage

Closeness and Affection Behaviour Check

Notice how affection, comfort, consent and conversations about closeness happen.

Important: This free behaviour assessment is for awareness and guidance. It is not medical, psychiatric or legal advice. If you are facing abuse, trauma symptoms, self-harm thoughts or immediate danger, contact a qualified professional or emergency support in your area.

1. I take small, visible steps around feeling close in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Notice what is happening around feeling close.
Choose one respectful next step.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

2. My partner takes small, visible steps around feeling close in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Notices what is happening around feeling close.
Chooses one respectful next step.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

3. I show respect and care through small daily actions in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Notice effort and respond warmly.
Avoid mocking, ignoring or putting the other person down.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

4. My partner shows respect and care through small daily actions in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Notices effort and responds warmly.
Avoids mocking, ignoring or putting me down.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

5. I say what feels comfortable or uncomfortable about closeness in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Talk about pace, affection and personal comfort.
Listen without making the other person feel guilty.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

6. My partner says what feels comfortable or uncomfortable about closeness in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Talks about pace, affection and personal comfort.
Listens without making me feel guilty.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

7. I show respect and care through small daily actions in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Notice effort and respond warmly.
Avoid mocking, ignoring or putting the other person down.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

8. My partner shows respect and care through small daily actions in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Notices effort and responds warmly.
Avoids mocking, ignoring or putting me down.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

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Result

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