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Marriage & Before Marriage

Home Responsibility Behaviour Check

Notice how housework, planning, caregiving and appreciation are shared.

Important: This free behaviour assessment is for awareness and guidance. It is not medical, psychiatric or legal advice. If you are facing abuse, trauma symptoms, self-harm thoughts or immediate danger, contact a qualified professional or emergency support in your area.

1. I take my fair share of tasks without repeated reminders in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Complete agreed tasks without waiting to be pushed.
Notice work that is usually invisible, such as planning or reminders.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

2. My partner takes their fair share of tasks without repeated reminders in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Completes agreed tasks without waiting to be pushed.
Notices work that is usually invisible, such as planning or reminders.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

3. I take my fair share of tasks without repeated reminders in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Complete agreed tasks without waiting to be pushed.
Notice work that is usually invisible, such as planning or reminders.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

4. My partner takes their fair share of tasks without repeated reminders in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Completes agreed tasks without waiting to be pushed.
Notices work that is usually invisible, such as planning or reminders.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

5. I take my fair share of tasks without repeated reminders in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Complete agreed tasks without waiting to be pushed.
Notice work that is usually invisible, such as planning or reminders.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

6. My partner takes their fair share of tasks without repeated reminders in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Completes agreed tasks without waiting to be pushed.
Notices work that is usually invisible, such as planning or reminders.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

7. I say thank you for everyday effort, not only big achievements in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Notice housework, care work or emotional effort.
Say thanks without adding criticism immediately.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

8. My partner says thank you for everyday effort, not only big achievements in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Notices housework, care work or emotional effort.
Says thanks without adding criticism immediately.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

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Result

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