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Parent-Child Communication Behaviour Check

Notice how listening, honesty, acceptance and encouragement happen at home.

Important: This free behaviour assessment is for awareness and guidance. It is not medical, psychiatric or legal advice. If you are facing abuse, trauma symptoms, self-harm thoughts or immediate danger, contact a qualified professional or emergency support in your area.

1. I use clear rules with warmth and patience at home.

Examples you can observe:

Explain the rule before enforcing it.
Keep the same rule even when tired.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

2. My child uses clear rules with warmth and patience at home.

Examples you can observe:

Explains the rule before enforcing it.
Keeps the same rule even when tired.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

3. I say words that make the child feel safe to tell the truth at home.

Examples you can observe:

Saying: “You can tell me the truth; I will listen first.”
Saying: “I may correct the behaviour, but I still love you.”

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

4. My co-parent or caregiver says words that make me feel safe to tell the truth at home.

Examples you can observe:

Saying: “I need you to listen before getting angry.”
Saying: “I want to tell you something, but I am scared.”

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

5. I say the truth in words the child can understand at home.

Examples you can observe:

Explain family changes without blaming others.
Answer questions simply without oversharing.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

6. My co-parent or caregiver says the truth in words I can understand at home.

Examples you can observe:

Asks simple questions when confused.
Says when they need a simpler explanation.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

7. I say words that notice effort, not only results at home.

Examples you can observe:

Saying: “You kept trying even when it was hard.”
Saying: “I am proud of your effort.”

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

8. My co-parent or caregiver says words that notice effort, not only results at home.

Examples you can observe:

Saying: “I tried again.”
Saying: “I feel good when you notice my effort.”

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

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Result

Dimension scores

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