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Parenting Agreement Check

See how much two caregivers agree on values, routines, discipline and support.

Important: This free behaviour assessment is for awareness and guidance. It is not medical, psychiatric or legal advice. If you are facing abuse, trauma symptoms, self-harm thoughts or immediate danger, contact a qualified professional or emergency support in your area.
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1. I say what I want for the future and listen to the other person’s view at home.

Examples you can observe:
  • Discuss one practical next step.
  • Check if our choices match our values.

2. My co-parent or caregiver says what they want for the future and listens to my view at home.

Examples you can observe:
  • Discusses one practical next step.
  • Checks if our choices match our values.

3. I use clear rules with warmth and patience at home.

Examples you can observe:
  • Explain the rule before enforcing it.
  • Keep the same rule even when tired.

4. My co-parent or caregiver uses clear rules with warmth and patience at home.

Examples you can observe:
  • Explains the rule before enforcing it.
  • Keeps the same rule even when tired.

5. I use clear rules with warmth and patience at home.

Examples you can observe:
  • Explain the rule before enforcing it.
  • Keep the same rule even when tired.

6. My co-parent or caregiver uses clear rules with warmth and patience at home.

Examples you can observe:
  • Explains the rule before enforcing it.
  • Keeps the same rule even when tired.

7. I show respect and care through small daily actions at home.

Examples you can observe:
  • Notice effort and respond warmly.
  • Avoid mocking, ignoring or putting the other person down.

8. My co-parent or caregiver shows respect and care through small daily actions at home.

Examples you can observe:
  • Notices effort and responds warmly.
  • Avoids mocking, ignoring or putting me down.
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