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Marriage & Before Marriage

Before Marriage Behaviour Check

Notice behaviours around communication, conflict, money, family and responsibilities before marriage.

Important: This free behaviour assessment is for awareness and guidance. It is not medical, psychiatric or legal advice. If you are facing abuse, trauma symptoms, self-harm thoughts or immediate danger, contact a qualified professional or emergency support in your area.

1. I say important things clearly and respectfully in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Say the issue, the feeling and the request.
Avoid hints and silent treatment.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

2. My partner says important things clearly and respectfully in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Says the issue, the feeling and the request.
Avoids hints and silent treatment.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

3. I slow down and focus on solving one issue at a time in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Stay with the current issue instead of bringing old issues.
Take a short break and return to finish the conversation.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

4. My partner slows down and focuses on solving one issue at a time in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Stays with the current issue instead of bringing old issues.
Takes a short break and returns to finish the conversation.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

5. I handle money openly and carefully in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Share important money information before decisions.
Discuss big spending before committing.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

6. My partner handles money openly and carefully in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Shares important money information before decisions.
Discusses big spending before committing.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

7. I respect family while protecting the relationship in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Check with my partner before agreeing to family demands.
Keep private matters private.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

8. My partner respects family while protecting the relationship in our relationship.

Examples you can observe:

Checks with me before agreeing to family demands.
Keeps private matters private.

Almost never Rarely Sometimes Often Almost always

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