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Jealousy and social media are affecting our relationship

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Likes, follows, comments and chats have started creating jealousy. I do not want to look insecure, but I also feel uncomfortable. How do I discuss it?

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Jealousy is not always irrational. Sometimes it points to unclear boundaries. Sometimes it comes from past hurt or insecurity. The key is to speak from discomfort without accusation.

Try: ‘I noticed I feel uncomfortable when __ happens. I am not saying you are doing something wrong, but I want us to discuss what feels respectful online.’

A healthy dating relationship can discuss digital boundaries early, before resentment builds.

Practical next steps

Agree what counts as harmless interaction, what feels like flirting, and what should be disclosed. Keep the agreement mutual.

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